One of the major deterrents to Christianity today believe it or not is the church. If you watch many of the de-conversion videos on you tube and social media you come away with similar themes - I had questions the church never provided an answer for, they said they and God loved me but all I experienced was a canned sermon, none of the people who went to the church actually knew or spoke about the Bible (or lived it), the few church leaders barely gave me the time of day when I needed help, where was God when I was in need, where was God when a family member was sick and dying, where is God now with all the starvation around the world, why is there all this pointless suffering and on and on.
What has been your experience?